As a teenager, my primary order of business was to try on a variety of selves and identities. It was like being in a dressing room, searching for the right clothes to fit. I felt as though I was the only one trapped in this uncertain state, faking my way through a game that I didn't quite grasp. Later, I was surprised and comforted to discover the truth of those teen years - everyone else was just as confused and uncomfortable as I was.